Sunday, July 12, 2009

Saput 101

Hindi porke’t dahil nakatawa ka na, dahil nakapagbitiw ka na ng punch line, dahil nakapag-joke ka na, at dahil mukhang okay ka na OKAY na talaga. Some things have to be hidden beneath the laughter, beneath the jokes, and beneath the smile to console the dispirited ego. Some ill feelings have to be masked with optimistic-looking fake emotions so as those won’t continually hurt.

Iba mapagod ang taong matagal ng pagod…
Iba magalit ang taong matagal ng galit…

Sometimes, you have to fake it that you are already okay because, whether you are okay or not, it won’t make any difference!

19 stupidly perfect reactions:

Paul Denver Sy said...

i don't know what is the reason but kuya, LET IT OUT TO WHOM IT MAY CONCERN! maybe it will make a difference! Don't hide it with any other reason. Ipagawas lang gud nah kay sa imo taguan. And then after pagpawas, maybe it is the time na makalaugh and smile naka na walay gitaguan.

DJ Rem said...

...aw? what happened diay? Bitaw, people tend to be insensitive about things...they just don't know what it felt to be worn-out...I'm sorry for that...things will be alright, I hope..

Naa ra ko, if you want somebody to talk to..k ra na Junrell...
diba pareho naman ta'g edad ron...maka- destruct na'g beauty...lols

mavs said...

okay...
i know this is a serious post that needs serious comment...
but lemme just smile over Dj Rem's comment...
maka- destruct na'g beauty...lols
may mga ganito na pala xang punchlines...hehehe

ok...
going back to the topic...
i'm not reli sure kung ano ang pinanggagalingan ng emotion mo ngaun frend...
but whatever it is...
i wish it can be resolved soon...
if its something about me again,
feel free to punch me anywhere...
and im sorry for my shortcomings...
i agree with Paul that u have to let it out so that u can finally laugh out loud without pretensions...
let it all out friend and clean up your closet...
wer just concern about u...

batang narS said...

hahaha.sakto!:D

optimistic dora said...

btaw! dili kay if ngkatawa rkah, ok rnah nimu... hehehe, ok rnah kuya! i'll support u, ahw? hehe...

aPPLe:-) said...

...i dunno da whole s2ry but i guess 8s more healthy if u will l8 it out. parang martyrdom naman ang dramh mo nyan kapag u will kip on hiding it...c")

...be happy bong...c")




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aPPLe:-) said...

...gandah ng pic. parang sasabohg na bombah. ajejejeje. let that feeling out bong. it's only then when u can laugh without pretensions...c")




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selena said...

Although we often question why bad things happen, there's usually no satisfying answer; sometimes life just throws us a lemon. Though hindsight may eventually provide a positive outlook to what now appears to be a negative, that possibility probably won't provide the comfort we're seeking right away.

Accept to Move On.

But first, it's important to deal with the any initial feelings of denial, anger, guilt, and blame. Though these feelings are perfectly natural, they won't help you feel better. When something bad happens accept that it has happened. You don't have to like it, but accept it. Denial won't make it go away.

Though temporary negative moods may even be helpful in dealing with a bad event, they won't help you recover and move on with your life. But a positive attitude will help you move forward. Most of us recognize this, but we often have trouble finding ways to elevate to more positive moods and attitudes.

You can overcome that my friend.

selena said...

In times of discourgement, sharing your feelings with a supportive person helps to lift your spirits. The act of verbalizing what you're thinking and feeling is often enough to help you get past initial negative feelings. Share it with you friend bong.

selena said...

You drop by to my site for more tips. I had a great time reading your blog.

mayumi said...

Managing your anger and ill feelings is good. But keeping it at all times is also bad.

Bong, I trust to your decision of hiding it. At most times, pains are best healed by not dwelling too much on the feeling. At most times, wounds are best healed in silence.

mayumi said...

I will always admire you for that. Only few people can mask their dispirited self with optimism.

Stay strong Bong!

tamara said...
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tamara said...

If that would
make you feel
better, then
that's good.
I know you
will overcome
that my friend.

Anonymous said...

SAKTO AU BAI!!!

I am Bong said...

to everyone:

thanks for showing some concern. thanks for the words - for agreeing and for disagreeing on my thoughts. it was appreciated.

i only have one point: there are things that should be left unsaid or unexplained. we'll let it be that way.

thanks.

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krishA said...

OMG. I cannot agree with you more on this post. I can so relate, its like hindi porket nag sorry ka na ok na lahat? HAHA tama ba kuya.

but yeah, I see what you mean.


RE: doon sa pag comment mo sa page ko, kuya sa right hand corner sa baba ha. baka mali mo ginagawa? kasi lahat naman nakakapag comment eh.

I am Bong said...

@krisha

thanks baby krish...

RE: i've tried it for so many times. i just don't understand why i can't comment. huhu

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